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Built on US Census, CDC, Gallup, and Pew Research data — not guesses.
Tell us about yourself
Age, gender, orientation, location, attractiveness, income, and education.
Your personal profile
Diet, religion, politics, personality, and lifestyle — what others see when checking if you match.
Who you're looking for
Physical preferences, lifestyle filters, and compatibility traits. Each choice shapes your pool.
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Get a precise "1 in X" number from real demographics, plus suggestions if your pool is too small.
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Share your profile link anywhere. Mutual matches get each other's anonymous code.
Your privacy is the product
Most dating apps monetize your personal data. We built SoulmateOdds differently — your privacy isn't a policy, it's the architecture.
When you upload a photo for AI attractiveness rating, it goes directly to the AI and is immediately discarded — we never see it, store it, or touch it.
Why each factor matters
Data-driven articles on the real science behind compatibility — one parameter at a time.
Why vegans have a 97% smaller dating pool — and what to do about it
Only 3% of Americans are vegan. Here's what the math means for your love life.
The 2-inch rule: how a small height filter costs you 40% of your matches
Height is the most filtered-on trait in online dating. The statistics might surprise you.
Does sharing a faith really matter? What the data says about religious compatibility
Religion is one of the top three compatibility factors.
Cross-political couples: rare, but do they last?
Political alignment is one of the biggest dating pool limiters.
Age gaps in dating: what the math actually says about the half-your-age rule
The "half plus seven" rule is everywhere. Does the data back it up?
AI vs self-rating: which score is more accurate for dating?
We built an AI attractiveness rater. Here's what we learned.
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